The Greatest 

We need to think about who we need to become and that is like Jesus.
Do we love in a way that our reputation and life is at risk?
1John 2:
We cannot say we  love God who we cannot see and not love our brothers and sisters that we can see.
John 13: 34
Galatians 5:6
What path are we on? What are we trying to do? Jesus was a rule breaker. We try to confine God on a print of paper. We have a society that love to marginalize people but God calls us to love everyone. Are we loving like Jesus? We need to love people when others will not because we are being like Jesus.
1 Corinthians 13: 1-8
We need to learn how to love like Jesus and everything else will fall into place.
When we are talking to someone we need to ask ourselves what does love require of me? We try to punish people by withdrawing our love.